Many people have asked me this question quietly, sometimes with a little fear in their hearts: “Am I really following Christ, or just calling myself a Christian?” It’s a sincere question, and a holy one. To ask it is already a sign that your heart is listening. Following Christ is not about perfection, but about direction—about where we are turning our lives, again and again.
When we look to Jesus Christ, we see that He never defined His followers by status, knowledge, or outward success. He simply said, “Follow me.” To follow Him means to trust Him enough to walk where He leads, even when the road is narrow or unclear. It is a relationship before it is a rule—a living bond of love between the Lord and the one who listens to His voice.
The Church teaches us that a true follower of Christ is known by love. Not loud words or visible piety, but a heart shaped by mercy, humility, and forgiveness. Jesus Himself told us that the world would recognize His disciples not by what they claimed, but by how they loved—especially when love costs something. This love is not born from our strength, but from remaining close to Him in prayer, in the Scriptures, and in the sacraments.
And finally, following Christ always touches daily life. It shows itself in small, faithful choices: choosing honesty over convenience, kindness over resentment, hope over despair. We stumble, yes—but a true follower gets up again, trusting in God’s mercy. The path of discipleship is not about never falling, but about never walking alone. Christ walks with us, patient and gentle, teaching us how to love as He loves.
Reflection – A Closing Thought
May we never be afraid to ask whether we are truly following Christ—and may we always listen for His quiet invitation to walk closer with Him. Lord Jesus, teach us not only to believe in You, but to follow You with our whole hearts.
— Fr. John Matthew, for Christian Way.
